Adventures in Escapism
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With two coping skills exhausted, and thinking I had no other option, the only other comfortable thing to do was quit and run.
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Hindsight is a luxury only afforded to those addicts fortunate enough to make it back alive. I realize that I am blessed to be here and the behavior I displayed in this situation has shown me a reflection of mistakes that led me to use. I see that I use coping mechanisms that are healthy, such as distraction, and some that are not so healthy, such as eating. I also see that I have a tendency to run even though I’ve never considered myself to be a quitter. There are plenty of things I could have done before escaping with a pirate. There are also plenty of things I could have done before I relapsed. Talked to a friend, been honest with my feelings, journaled, found my therapist and discussed the situation, and shared about it in the meeting, are all options to solving such problems before I think myself into doing something stupid. As in this situation, I made the decision to use before the action ever took place, and it wouldn’t have mattered how many girls chased me down or how many coordinators tried to talk me out of it. A mind set on something inflexible, unchanging, and unable to see anything other than what it wants to see, including healthier perspectives.
Riddled with self-will, I figured that a 3 hour visit on my terms would be just as good as a 3 hour visit granted to me by Dr. Moran, but was obviously mistaken since the majority of time was spent arguing. It’s amazing how one minute others disappoint me because I have the expectations I immediately take it back.
I don’t have to like what people say in order to accept that it’s what I need to hear. I also don’t have to like where I’m at to accept it’s where God needs me to be at that moment. Through it all however, I have options – and I never have to use. And didn’t.